Everyone knows: children make life difficult for us. They are adorable little monsters who love to make us repeat the same thing dozens of times without ever listening to us. They are cute and they know it. If you are tired of constantly shouting at them without it having any effect, discover 10 tips to finally make yourself heard, in calm and serenity. Enough to convince them to clean their room and obey you…
In addition to these tips, also discover our examples of positive and effective punishments which will support you in their education.
1/ Be short
You must always be clear and firm with a child. Don’t shout, don’t get angry, don’t use long sentences. Tell him clearly what you want him to do “Clean your room or you will be deprived of play tonight”.
2/ Be consistent
If you have already said “no” several times and your child insists, don’t get upset and calmly respond, “You’ve already asked me that and you already know the answer.” If you don’t want your children to scream, don’t scream. You must set an example for them.
3/ Be inflexible
If your child does not obey you, do not let it “pass this once”, you must maintain the punishment. If you break once, you will no longer have any authority. Your child needs to know who decides.
4/ Be calm
If your child is screaming, crying and you don’t understand what he is saying, kindly ask him to repeat his sentence correctly. Once done, thank him and respond to his comment.
5/ Be precise
When you are angry because your child did something stupid, explain to him or her what made you feel that way. Your child needs to know that it’s not him who makes you angry, but one of his behaviors. This way, he will know what is causing your dissatisfaction and avoid doing the same thing again.